Thursday, November 11, 2010
保持一定的距离..
在人际交往中,距离是一种美,也是一种保护。因此,交朋友要有一种弹性,要保持一定的距离....这句话满道理的..
有人认为,好朋友应该常聚会呀,保持距离不就疏远了吗?问题就在于常聚会,好朋友最初在一起,都能够融洽相处,但因为彼此来自不同的环境,受不同的教育,因此人生观再怎么接近,也不可能完全相同,便无可避免地要碰触彼此的差异。于是他们会从尊重对方,慢慢变成容忍对方,到最后成为要求对方。当要求不能如愿,便开始背后挑剔、批评,然后结束友谊。
所以,人与人之间的相处,彼此需要一些空间,有时太多亲近,不小心失了分寸,就会造成彼此的紧张和伤害。如果有了好朋友,与其太接近而彼此伤害,不如保持距离,以免碰撞。能保持距离就会产生礼让,尊重对方。所以,为了友谊,为了人生,不要怕孤单寂寞,人们要在人际交往中和朋友保持一定距离,避免因过分地亲密,而失去朋友。
学会保持适当距离.....
看了这篇文章,很想跟大家分享....
我们的关系像半生熟的荷包蛋,感情会更好吧。。。哈哈哈!!!hope OUR FRIENDSHIP WILL BE FOREVER.....
Monday, November 8, 2010
many first time i do in this sem ( my THIRD YEAR)
manY THings happening in 2010....july till nov...hahhahaa...
first time pass up assignment to wrong lecturer...,really funny!!!!
first time bring my sarawak frienz go kuantan gai gai,quite unbelievable they will come
first time eat roti canai and chat at midnight with my juniors....
first time spend my time at tc to celebrate mooncAKE FESTIVAL
first time face the people who i hate b4..now i try to forgive them to set myself from freedom and becum happier
first time become councelor of my juniors...
first time c ghost movie with my lovely seniors..quite romantic...scream high....
first time heard my juniors said i am quite friendly senior,so happy AH..
first time scold my members who never help anything for my project....
first time FIRST TIME i believe got jesus in this world who will create a miracle in my life
first time i send all sadness of my life to god..lets him decide my road ....
first time my family can have our own sweet home....no need to rent a house lo
first time feel so happy bez can get bek earlier ,16 nov...
first time think that we have to appreciate our family and frienz who besides us..bez when i heard about news of accident at highway....made me feel that we can't predict what will happen next..
first time i become optimistic when i faced any difficulties..first time LO....
thanx JESUS,This year i had grow uP LO.....BE A BETTER GAL AND BETTER KELLY ONG
first time when i heard god's songs..i felt so touching and cried....
a miracle really happening....everything is my first time....unbelievable...
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